A certain preacher always prays long and with enthusiasm for thieves and muggers that attack people on the street. "Let your mercy, 0 Lord, cover their insolence." He doesn't pray for the good, but only for the blatantly cruel. "Why is this?" his congregation asks. "Because they have done me such generous favors. Every time I turn back toward the things they want, I run into them. They beat me and leave me nearly dead in the road, and I understand, again, that what they want is not what I want. They keep me on the spiritual path. That's why I honor them and pray for them." Those that make you return, for whatever reason, to God's solitude, be grateful to them. Worry about the others, who give you delicious comforts that keep you from prayer. Friends are enemies sometimes, and enemies Friends. --Rumi